It can all start with a cheeky grin, a snicker or a giggle,  a chuckle, or, a chortle and open up into a cackle, a schriek or howl and  full on laughing fit.  You can certainly feel your stomach muscle at work when you are having a good laugh.  What better way to tone that tummy!

It feels so good to have a good laugh and a great way to lighten the load when you are having a  stressful day.  

The study of laughing and its effects on the human body is called Gelotology.   Laughter has been proven to have many health benifits, including, increasing oxygen flow, improving circulation, reducing stress and strenghten your immune system, even reducing pain.  This can all occur due to the release of endorphin, the feel good hormones being released into the blood, along with the  increase in blood flow from increased oxygen and the relaxation of muscles groups from the release of tension.  

Dr Madan Kataria a physician from Mumbai India is the creator of Laughter Yoga.  This really is the wellbeing workout.  He teaches that the body can not differentiate between pretend and genuine laughter.  Both produce the happy chemistry in the body.  If life is all getting a bit serious and you want a quick pick me up and a good old belly laugh check out Dr Madans work on u-tube.  I challenge you to give it a go, it is very effective and hilarious.

Link to laughter yoga - 100 Laughter Yoga Exercise Dr Madan Kataria
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fq4kTZuLops

If you are ready for a bit of fun either on your own or with your family and friends organise something that will help you too laugh.  

Consider the following:
 
What has made you laugh in the past?
Who are those friends that always makes you laugh that you want to hang out with?
How can you laugh at yourself more?
Where could you go that would be funny?
What could you do that would be funny?
How could you start your day or finish your day in a funny way?
How could you make your family or friends laugh?
Whats your favourite funny family game to play?
What funny book could you read?
What funny movie could you watch?
What funny date night could you plan?


                                              A day without laughter is a day wasted
                                                                     Charlie Chaplin

It's the time of year when  everything seems to happen at once.  End of year school activities, organising holiday breaks, Christmas parties and yes Christmas!  Add to it all a family crisis or extra unexpected expenses and its easy to feel overwhelmed trying to manage it all.

If you are starting to feel stressed or in the past this time of year has been a  mad rush to the finishing line, make a commitment to yourself to plan a different approach this year.  

Plan your events, activities, holidays, get togethers  around your health and wellness so you can turn up  full of energy, with clear skin and bright eyes ready to enjoy your family and friends.  If unexpected stressful situations or events happen, be kind and nouirsh yourself like you would a close friend who needs support.   

Planning to nourish yourself with nutrition is a great way to stay on top and provide your body with the nutrients it needs to cope with this extra stress and pressure.

Stress, alcohol and coffee can deplete you of vitamin B, C and magnesium which are key nutrients essential for energy production and maintance of skin, hair and eyes.   They are also essential for helping you cope with stress.  Nourishing yourself with nutrition is the best way to get healthy doses of these nutrients from unrefined whole foods.

Plan to Pre - plan  Breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks that are hight in Vitamin B , C & Magnesium to help you cope.

B Vitamins
Spinach, Dark greens, Broccoli, Lentils, Black beans, Soya beans, Kidney beans, Oats, wholegrain cereals, mushrooms, eggs

Vitamin C
Berries, Blackcurrents, Kiwi fruit, Oranges, Peppers, Dark greens, Spinach, Broccoli, Tomato, 

Magnesium
Dark Greens, Spinach, Pumpkin Seeds, Almonds, Nuts, Black beans, Bananas, Avocados, Salmon, Unsweetened Probiotic Yogurt, Cacao

Here are some meal ideas of how you could combinding the foods above to get great stress less nutrition.

Breakfast
- Oats with frozen or fresh berries, yogurt
- Omelttes or eggs with spinach, tomatoes, peppers, or mushrooms
- Mushroom and spinach on wholemeal toast
- Green Smoothie - Dark green veges, banana and berries, yogurt, nuts, cacao

Lunch
- Salmon with green salad topped with pumpkin seeds
- Wraps with dark green salad, egg, tomatoes
- Bean salad with peppers tomatoes
- Lentil salad, mushrooms, spinach 
- Minestorne soup, with wholemeal bread
- Eggs on wholemeal toast  

Dinner
-Saag aloo curry - spinach, tomato based curry  Add chicken, lamb or veges
-Vegetable lasagna with wholemeal lasagna sheets
-Salmon & Salad with brocolli
-Stir fry vegetable with brocoli, soya beans, cashew nuts add chicken, lamb, beef 
-Black bean tacos with tomatoes, peppers and avocado.

Snacks
-Nuts and fruit
-Avocado on wholemeal crackers
-Unsweetend yogurt with fruit
-Banana slices with  almond or peanut butter
-Green Smoothie 

Consider setting some goals or strategies around eating and drinking while socialising in order to keep yourself in check

For example:

limiting yourself to 2 glasses of wine for the evening
Deciding which events you will drink at and which you won't.  
Drinking spritzers or water between alcoholic drinks
Drinking non-alcoholic mocktails
Arrange to take a plate of food or nibbles  that you know with be a healthy option and you enjoy
Eat healthy before you go out so you aren't hungry and prevent overindulging.
Think of portion size of meals if eating out - consider ordering two entrees or,  main and desert or 
entree and main.
or
Plan to indulge and enjoy every bite and sip without feeling guilty as part of your balanced approach to eating.  


Alcohol can often interfere with sleep  which is essential when you are stressed.  Alcohol can often help you go off to sleep but may interfere with REM sleep which is the restorative sleep period.   You may find you wake up latter in the night or don't feel refreshed in the morning.  If you are already struggling with sleep consider whether it is worth making it worse by over indulging.  Consider what you need to do the next day and whether you can afford to feel less refreshed.  

Say No - Easy right!

If you are feeling overwhelmed or stressed, don't overbook or overcomitt yourself,
Its ok to say no to others. 
Focus on your priorities  and put your health first to be at your best.

Exercise the right way for you!

Exercise is a great stress releaser.  However when you are under stress long hard workout can add extra  stress to your body and deplete you further.  Whereas short simple exercise routine can destress and restore energy.   Consider what is best for you.

Down time

And finally plan some down time where you plan nothing, time just for you to read, relax, have a bath whatever you need to keep yourself in check.  

Stay in the moment and enjoy the crazy season!

"The shortest way to do many things is to do one thing at a time."
Sir Richard Cecil

There may be many jobs you need to complete before you finish up for the year and can take a break.   You may be multitasking to try and achieve everything on your list.  However, research shows that multitasking is actually over rated and effectively means that you may be doing more than one thing inefficiently.

When you are multitasking you are actually switching between two or more tasks and you are never completely present for the task at hand.  This tend to mean you will miss things as  your brain becomes overloaded.  It can become harder to see the obvious things right in front of you.

Here are some of the common problems you may experience when you multitask.

• You may get memory loss and forget things as your brain switches between the activities
• You may upset people you are with if you aren't focusing on them and present in the moment, e.g. answering phone or email, texting while with people
• You may be putting yourself or others in danger if you are driving while texting, eating or talking on the phone
• You are more likely to make mistakes and miss important things
• Its harder for you to retain information
• You are more likely to feel stressed and overwhelmed
• Depending on the task you are doing it may take you 10-15 minutes per task to refocus as you switch between each.  It can wastes  a lot of your time.

So here are some tips you might find helpful to get you organised and focussed and ready for Christmas day.

Taking the time to write down all the tasks or projects that are in your head, that you think need to be completed, can help you  decide what is really important for you, and your family and what has to take priority this Christmas.  

Once you have everything down on paper, decide what are the priorities, and what needs to be done today?  Starting your day with a clear intent or knowing what you want to achieve can be helpful in prioritising what is important and making sure it happens.  

Pick no more than two priority items each days that must get done.  Then think about your day and plan it into blocks of time, slotting in your priority, (must get done tasks) into the best time slots for you and your family situation to ensure they get done.    

If you start to feel overwhelmed by a task, breaking it down into smaller steps may be helpful.
For example, if you have to organise Christmas dinner,  break it down into the steps involved and focus on one task at a time. 
Step 1 set budget
Step 2 plan menu
Step 3 decide who will do what, 
Step 4  ring or email family and ask them to bring something
Step 5 make a shopping list
Step 6 go shopping etc...

With the remaining items on your list think about any jobs that could be delegated or family can help you with, either today or over the course of the week.  Make sure you give clear instructions when you pass on the task so they know exactly what your expectation are and when it needs to be done by and why its important to you.  And, remember to check that they understand clearly what you are asking them to do.

Try to organise and prioritise tasks that are similar on your to do list into groups e.g.: Grocery shopping for Christmas,  picking up food gifts for friends, send Christmas parcels (things that can be done in a similar time period ) 

If you need no distractions for certain tasks, make sure that you allocate times in your day when there are the least distractions.  Turn off your phone, Facebook and don't check or answer any emails, remain focused on the task at hand.   You will be surprise at how much quicker you get through everything.

Setting a timer to remind yourself to take breaks will help you be more productive.  Taking regular breaks and nourishing yourself with food, water, or movement is the best way to help you stay on track.  Its important to break up periods of activity or concentration to prevent your body and mind from becoming exhausted.

Remember not to over plan your days and let go of anything that is just not that important. Set boundaries around your time and  say no to others if necessary to ensure you do get things achieved that are important to you.







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"Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.” –Jim Rohn

Are you tired from not sleeping well, or is stress keeping you awake at night?  
 
It can be a vicious cycle because when you don’t sleep well, you are more likely to feel stressed and make poor health decisions. When you are stressed and make poor health decisions you are less likely to sleep!  

It’s like the chicken and the egg scenario, which comes first?  Being stressed or poor sleep!

So how as a busy working mum can you get a better night sleep ?
There is so much advice, information, seminars, supplements, drinks, marketed to you, to try and help you to get a better sleep and reduce stress.    However, without completely understanding your unique situation as a working mum, and your unique challenges and the problems that arise, it’s hard for someone to make the right recommendations for you or your family.  

If you are ready to take action and make some lasting changes have a look at some of the possibilities of things you may want to work on. 

In which area do you need to look at making some changes?

• Planning ahead and feeling organised
• Unwinding, relaxing, playing, de-stressing in ways that fit with your values and routines
• Exercise daily, the right amount and the right type to suit your unique situation
• Improving or eating a wholefood diet low in sugar, fat, salt and stimulates that can keep you awake or drain you of energy.
• Improving your digestion or correcting your nutrient deficiencies that can aid sleep, or help you cope with stress 
• Creating a restful and calming sleeping environment for you and your children
• Creating boundaries and rules around work time and home life
• Creating boundaries and rules around bedtimes
• Avoiding blue light from computers and devices in the evenings
• Getting the help and treatment you need for any medical conditions that may be interfering with your sleep. 

When you sleep well you naturally wind down and have conscious and unconscious bedtime rituals and behavioural habits that you preform which promote good sleep.  Eating well and exercising regularly is important.  Calming overstimulated senses is essential.  Having support through change can get you the results and the great night sleep you are trying to achieve.  
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There is nothing better than a big bowl of hot soup on a cold day.  Soups are full of nutrition which will help boost your immune system over the winter months.     Hot soup in a flask for school lunches for the kids or yourself is a great way to protect the family from all those colds and flu bugs by boosting your immunity with nutritional support.

The base for most soups is onions and garlic.  Not only  do they add beautiful flavours to your soup but these two remarkable related plants  have the ability to kill bacteria, fungi and viruses.

Garlic contains a compound called allin which when you crush or chew changes to allicin. .  Allicin is the strong sulphur smell and taste that you experience when eating garlic and the main active ingredient that has medicinal benefits and can help you fight the common cold or flu.

​Onions contain high levels of polyphenols which have numerous health benefits, but in relations to boosting your immunity they provide prebiotic to feed and increase the good bacteria in your gut.  Gut bacteria helps with digestion and absorptions of the nutrients in your food which ultimately supports your immunity.  

Check out these websites for some soup meal inspirations

http://wellnourished.com.au/category/healthy-soup-recipes/
Favourites - Immune Boosting Broth
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http://chelseawinter.co.nz/category/recipes/soup-recipes
Favourites - Thai Pumpkin Soup  or Mean Green Vegetable Soup

https://shop.countdown.co.nz/shop/RecipeCategory/38?name=soups
Favourites - Carrot Soup with Feta & Quinoa or Chickpea & Lentil Soup

Adding thick crusty sourdough bread as a side, to dip into your delicious soup will help satisfy your hunger.  Sourdough bread begins with a starter containing natural yeasts.  The yeast creates the enzymes needed to predigest the grains in the bread which can help prevent that bloated feeling you may get after eating other breads.  The longer soaking and rising times helps break down the proteins (gluten) and makes it easier to digest.

Topping the bread with hummus, pestos or olive oil and crushed garlic will give you an extra tasty nutritional hit of garlic with your soup or, as a snack on its own.  

Enjoy!

                         
                                  You don't have to cook fancy or complicated masterpieces,
                                                     just good food from fresh ingredients
                                                                            Julia Child

Meal planning for evening meals and keeping everyone happy in the family can be frustrating.  You probably already know what your families likes and dislikes  concerning  meals that you prepare.   Often when we are rushed or haven't planned in advance you may choose quick unhealthy options or stop at the supermarket 3-4 times during your week picking up things you need.  You may be preparing different meals to keep everyone happy which can be a huge time waster,  or you may be throwing out food that doesn't get eaten.   Meal planning for your week may save you time and money,  it may help you to eat healthy nutritious  home cooked meals and make you feel more organised.  So here is one way you might like to try to meal plan in order to  cater for your families tastes and lifestyle.

When you have a moment to plan, put the jug on, make yourself a cup of tea and start by looking through your favourite recipe books or, online for suitable recipes for your family.    Ask the rest of the family to contribute their ideas to if they are old enough.  Pick out healthy home cooked unprocessed meals that everyone is happy with.   So if they want burgers or pizza find a healthy home made recipe option, if you eat vegetarian look for vegetarian options.    Start to make a collection of around 20 recipes under different evening meal categories such as:

Roast meals,  
Pasta dishes,
Stir fries,  
Curries,  
Pies,
Soups,  
Mexican dishes,
Home made burgers,  
Home made Pizzas,  
Quick meal options 15 minutes or less,
Favourite salads, 
Favourite vegetables etc...  

Write down the meal, cook book and page number, or  website as a future reference to find it quickly when you  need it.   Store this list somewhere you can access it easily when you come to do your planning for the week.   

If you can find  20 recipes, this will allow for around 4 weeks meal planning with a variety of different options you change around over the weeks.    When you go to plan out your week,  split up the types of meals you offer from the  categories, like,  pasta night,  Mexican night, etc.  Plan which nights need to be quick easy options and who will be there for dinner.   Select your meals based on the above then list the ingredients onto your shopping list from the recipes you have selected, to ensure when you go shopping you will get everything  you need to cook for the week.

Include side vegetables or salad ingredients  that you know everyone likes.  Leave salads disassembled  when you prepare them so that family members can make it themselves, choosing from the options on the plate that they like, or, keep family favourite frozen vegetables in the freezer as quick side options.

Double a couple of recipes for the week,  the extra can be frozen as quick meal options for the following weeks when you don't have time to prepare meals.

If you are cooking roast meats buy larger sizes in order to use extra meat for lunches during the week.  

If you have kids 3years +  ask them to contribute to choosing one favourite meal for the week or giving them a choice of 3 meals they can choose from.   Ask question like,  what would you like as your favourite pasta meal this week, spaghetti, mac cheese or lasagna?  What soup flavour would you like,  pumpkin or Chicken?  What vegetables would you like to have with your roast this week peas or beans?  If you where to try one new vegetable this week what would you choose?   Giving them choices and not to many options helps them to feel involved and in control of their eating.

Get others in the family involved in cooking one or more nights during the week,  if possible.  Anybody can cook if they are able to read a recipe.

Here is an example of an evening meal plan for the week.

                                                                    Dinner Meal Plan     

                       Meal                                   Sides/Veges             Evening Activities             Recipe Book Pg no
Monday         Stir Fry                                Quinoa/Rice             After school activities    
Tuesday        Pasta dish                          Vege/Salad              Dad cooking /Mum out                                                                                                
Wednesday  Mexican dish (double)      Vege/Salad
Thursday      Prepared meal in freezer                                    School meeting/defrost meal
Friday           Curry (double)                      Quinoa/Rice           
Saturday      Pizza                                      Vege/Salad            Molly staying over
                                                                                                      kids help make their own
Sunday        Roast Meal (double)             Vege/Salad           Dad & kids cookings
   

      Every minute you spend in planning saves 10 minutes in execution; this gives you a 1000 percent
                                                                     return on energy!
                                                                           Brian Tracy






                                         
 






 

Have you booked a holiday for later in the year?  Are you already feeling excited as you count down the days until its time to pack up and go?  Are you anticipating some time out to relax or taking time out to enjoy a good book?   Are you thinking about the time you can spend with your family or friends and the great things you are going to see and do?    Maybe you are reliving the holiday you had over Christmas in your mind and remembering all the awesome thing you did.

The anticipation of looking forward to something in the future or reliving the experience from the past may make you feel happy,  but why not relax, unwind, play have adventures every day or every week?     You can't necessarily go on holiday every week,  but you can book time out into  your days and weeks that you can look forward to.   

Having something to look forward to in the future keeps life exciting.  But having something to look forward to each day and living in the moment makes life more interesting, fullfilling  and keeps you from burning out.   Why not have mini breaks everyday, enjoy the moments, express, share and relive the highlights of your day with your friends and family.  Lighten the load and focus on the good stuff!

Often we focus on all the things we have to get done, all the places we have to be, all the people we have to keep happy.    How can you focus on creating some  time for yourself to  enjoy more of what makes you happy?  

If you are thinking I just don't have the time.  Ask yourself is your happiness and health a priority to you?
Health is wealth, without your health you will have all the time in the world but won't be able to do the things you love.  So make your health and happiness a priority, make time for yourself and don't wait until your next holiday to relax, unwind, play, have an adventure or enjoy the things you love. 

What has been the highlight for you this week?
What moments do you want to retell, relive and share with someone?
What are you looking forward to tomorrow or next week?
Whats one thing that you enjoy doing or somewhere you would like to go or experience in the coming weeks? 
How can you schedule some time  into your day to do something just for you that makes you happy?












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 For breakfast, or around 3pm in the afternoon when you may feel low in energy try a super food smoothie to pick you up and give you that energy kick you need.  So simple,  quick and easy and full of nutrients that your body needs to provide you with energy to be the super mum you are. That is super mum, as in  a great mum, defined by your values, not super mum as in gets everything done perfectly and keeps everyone happy all the time. (Like unicorns  these mum's don't exist.)

Here is a base recipe for you to try there are so many options out there but you can change this one up to fit with your tastes.   Observe how you feel before you drink it and 1/2 an hour after.  Do you notice a difference in your mood and energy levels?

General formula for making a green energy boosting  super food smoothie
2-3 cups of greens           +             ½ -1 cups of berries         +            1-2 cups of liquid
Use any leafy greens        +             ½-1 banana for sweetener          milks, water, coconut water         
Other greens                                                                                                                    
Broccoli
Cucumber
Celery
 
Flavor helpers – to mask the leafy green if you find the flavor to strong
Cinnamon – vanilla – raw cacao – fresh ginger – lime juice – lemon juice – fresh mint leaves
Add any extra energy boosting super food powders below
 
Super foods are now one of the biggest health trends in NZ.   However, its my personal belief that you do not need to eat super foods that have been packaged or bought in from the other side of the world.  There are many super foods that you can grow yourself in your back garden, or, buy from your local supermarket or vege store.   Packaged super foods just give you a convenient option and some  aren’t grown in NZ. 

Here is a recipe using the base above that may help you to feel like a super mum with nutrients  your body can use to help you be energized.
 
Green smoothie (mixed in a high speed blender)
½ banana (I keep frozen bananas in the freezer)
½ cup of blueberries, raspberries or mixed berries (super foods)(I keep frozen)
1 cup or large handful of spinach, kale, silverbeet, leafy parsley, broccoli (any green leafy vegetables) (all superfoods)
1 stick of celery
½ cup cucumber
2 cups of coconut water or water (coconut water is a super food, you can buy it powdered and add water)
You could add extra packaged super foods for extra energy boosting.

So what makes a food a super food?  It is a food that contains the highest nutrient levels for its density and the least negative properties such as saturated fat and salt.  It is a wholefood (not processed or very little processing,) usually picked straight from a tree or plucked from the ground.  It has a food synergy, which means, it has two or more nutrients that work together to achieve a health benefit.  On their own the nutrients couldn’t achieve the same result.  A super food is simple, simple to eat and needs no or little preparation to eat it and has a positive effect on your health.

Packaged powdered super foods specially good for increasing energy (add to smoothies or other recipes) are
Maca  -  Spriullina  -  Cacao - Beetroot – Berries – Greens - Matcha green tea

Convenient super food option
This is a good emergency option when you need a quick energy boost but don’t have the fruits or vegetables, blender, or in the right place to mix up a smoothie.    
Simply have a green packaged super food mix available in your cupboard at home or leave one at work, or take one with you when you are traveling.  Mix with water or milk, or coconut water.   You won’t need a blender just a shaker or stir well.  (Some taste better than other it’s a personal taste preference.) 

Are you procrastinating and just not feeling motivated to get back into work or start on your health goals for the year? 

You might think you know what you want to be doing but you keep delaying or postponing getting started.  You might be thinking, i'll start tomorrow when i'm feeling more motivated, have more energy or more time to think about it.   However when tomorrow comes  you still don't feel  motivated, have the energy or the time  and something else distracts you again.

Procrastination is the habit of putting off until the day after tomorrow what should have been done the day before yesterday.
Napoleon Hill

So why does this happen and how can you get motivated to start?

Often we are planning  our future in our head, thinking about goals, thinking about what life could be like if we just had the time, motivation or energy.  You can see the value in taking action and can see the long term benefits, however,  you are being distracted in the present moment by the things that come up everyday, or, maybe give you instant gratification.

You may want to cook healthier meals at home but you are rushed and tired and it's easier to pick up takeaways or buy processed food.    Or,  you would like to exercise regularly but  sitting down and relaxing with a glass of wine at the end of the day seems more enticing.   You know you should be more prepared before going into work meetings, but you get distracted by other tasks so you continue to feel more pressured and disorganised in the meetings.

Taking action is the key!  Motivation often grows once you make a start not before.  You need to take some kind of action in order to start to feel motivated and the momentum can grow from there.   The energy often follows especially when making health changes and when you know clearly what the real reason is behind why its important for you,  you will find the time because it will become a priority.

Here are some strategies that may help you to stop procrastinating and help you to take some action to get you started and get you feeling motivated. 

Make starting easier!

If you are setting new goals or starting new behaviours start small.   Don't make your goals so big that they seem to hard.   Keep it simple!

For example, if you want to cut back on coffee and are currently drinking 6 cups a day.  Break the goal down into steps over a series of weeks.  You are more likely to succeed and create a lasting behavioural change.

Step 1:   Buy tea bags, or water bottle this week
Step 2:   Drink 1 cup of herbal tea  at lunch time instead of coffee this week
Step 3:   Drink 1cup of herbal tea for breakfast and one cup of herbal tea with lunch next week
continue.....

Prioritise and remove distractions!

If you starting back at work and are feeling overwhelmed by the work load after having a break,  make a list of the 5-6 top priority items and then prioritise them from 1-6.   Break your priority tasks down into smaller steps and start with the first step.    As distractions come up ignore them, or if you can't ignore them, deal with them, then return to your top priority item and the step you are up to until that task  is completed.  Then continue through your list repeating the steps. 

Break your day up into blocks of time and focus on one task at a time, remembering to take breaks after 90-120 minutes of concentration.  Set an alarm to remind yourself to take breaks.  At the end of your day re-organise your list so you can start again tomorrow focusing on your 5-6 top priority task to be completed in your day.   Distractions are likely to happen, but if you can remain focused and keep bringing yourself back to one task at a time in priority order,  you will feel more productive and achieve more over the course of the week.


Reward yourself in the present time

You can increase the likely hood of getting started by rewarding yourself in the present moment for taking action  that will benefit you in the future.  

I will meet up with a friend for coffee at 11am after I have focused on writing my proposal for 90 minutes. 

I will take the family to the movies tonight with the money I have saved from not buying takeaways. 

I will buy a funky new pair of walking shoes so I can walk to and from the train every day and exercise for 40 minutes rather than take the car.

Consequences!

You can also make the consequences of procrastinating more immediate in the present moment.  Think about what the outcome will be if you don't start today.

If I get that fatty takeaway I'm going to get heartburn again and not feel well.
If I don't exercise today I'm not going to sleep well tonight.
If I don't go to bed by 10pm, i'm going to be so tired and won't be at my best for my meeting with my boss.
If I keep answering the phone and replying to text, I'm not going to get my proposal finished in time and might disappoint the customer.

Change up your environment!

If you are trying to start a new habit or behaviour it can be useful to change your environment in order to encourage that behaviour.  If you are wanting to eat healthier make sure you have plenty of healthy food options in your home, lunchbox, car, or office.    If you are wanting to drink more water, buy a drink bottle and carry it with you wherever you go.    If you want to wake up earlier to get more organised set an alarm clock and put it on the other side of the room so you have to get up when it goes off.  If you want to stop drinking coffee first thing in the morning,  put out the tea cup and herbal tea bags next to the jug and remove the coffee machine.  If you need to focus more at work, turn off your phone or remove Facebook and text alarms, or other distractions.

If you commit to nothing you will be distracted by everything.  So knowing clearly what it is you are wanting to achieve, and why its important to you will make it easier to get started.  Taking  some small first steps and actions  will help create your momentum and get you feeling motivated.  

Having set backs is normal when you are getting started or changing behaviours.  Having a clear plan with clear strategies and someone to be  accountable to and  support you through change will help you stay on track.    

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December can be a crazy month of the year and you may have lots to think about leading up to Christmas.  If you are feeling the stress or frustrations of the festive season starting to kick in you may find focussing on your breath helpful to help you remain calm. 

When you are stressed or tense often you can be shallow breathing which could be making your situation worse and activating the stress hormones in your body to prepare you for action.  In order to activate your parasympathetic nervous system which will help to do the opposite and calm you down, you can use your breath.  

You can't change situations outside of your control, however, you always have your breath which can help you to remain calm.   Often if you don't get upset with the people or situations that are frustrating you,  both become powerless by you choosing not to react.

For the frustrations at this time of year that often can seem so much bigger than they really are just because you are that little bit more pressured, try some of the following breathing exercises for 2-5 minutes and see how you feel afterwards.  Choose the option that is best suited for your situation.

When stuck in traffic or standing in ques, or becoming impatient with people try 4 seconds breathing in through your nose and seven seconds breathing out through your nose.

When you can't relax your busy mind at the end of the day try lying down and practice abdominal breathing a technique used in yoga practice.  Push your stomach out when breathing in, inflating it like a balloon and then flatten it, deflating the balloon on the out-breath.  Or, try breathing in eight times through the nose and then take one long breathe out through the mouth.

When you just have to let go of something and move on try, standing up taking a deep breath in, lifting your hands up over your head, then when you let the breathe out let your body fold forward, bending  your knees and folding in half dropping the head low, letting your hands swing by your side.  

​Let peace of mind be your gift to yourself this Christmas and remain calm amongt the chaos by breathing in relaxation and breathing out the sress and tension.

Merry Xmas